I grew up in a Christian house and went to church with numerous relatives because I am related to 5 founding members.
John 3:16 was drilled into my head from a very, very young age.
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.John 3:16
King James Version
And so was prayer.
When I Learned What Prayer Could Do
I did not understand what prayer could do until I was six years old. My parents woke me up early, early one morning (about 2 a.m.) and told me my paternal grandmother had a stroke and they were going to the hospital. My maternal grandfather was sleeping downstairs if my sister and I needed anything. They asked me to pray for grandma.
God, please don’t let my grandma die, please don’t let my grandma die, please don’t let my grandma die. God please don’t let my grandma die, please don’t let my grandma die, please don’t let my grandma die.Me, when I was 6
I prayed that prayer over and over and over again until God sent the sandman to put me to sleep. The next morning I raced down the stairs and was informed that grandma had not died but she had a long recovery ahead.
Wow! God answered my prayer! The simple prayer of an innocent six-year-old.
That is when I realized what prayer could do.
However, once I moved away from home, I got lazy. Lazy about going to church and lazy in my prayer life.
Oh, I would occasionally say prayers throughout my life, but it was after Joe’s passing that my prayer life and relationship with God got stronger. It did not get stronger all at once but slowly over the years while dealing with grief, unemployment, and building a new life.
Hear me as I pray, O Lord.Psalm 27: 7-8
Be merciful and answer me!
8 My heart has heard you say, “Come and talk with me.”
And my heart responds, “Lord, I am coming.”
Prayer is not for God. Prayer is for you. It is your way to communicate with our heavenly Father, to develop and cement a relationship with Him. He wants to talk with every one of us.
You don’t know what to pray?
Well, if you followed the previous step and read your Bible after exercising, then you have the best prayer book in your hands.
Pray God’s word back to Him.
If you are grieving try the second part of Psalm 30:5
For his anger lasts only a moment,Psalm 30:5
but his favor lasts a lifetime!
Weeping may last through the night,
but joy comes with the morning.
New Living Testament
For example: Lord you say weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning. Would you please let that morning arrive soon? Preferably tomorrow morning? In Jesus Name I Pray, Amen.
That’s it. Just a simple little prayer. Nothing fancy, nothing complicated.
Just remember God will answer that prayer – in His time, not yours. I know it is tough to wait for His time but His time will arrive.
So for the next 40+ days, including Sundays, pray about one thing in your life or a loved one’s life. Write it down on a piece of notebook paper or in a journal, draw a circle around it and pray about it daily.
Not sure yet what thing or area in my life I will be drawing a circle around in my notebook. I do know it will either be this blog or my job that will be the recipient of intense pray this Lent.
Pray as if God was your best friend because He is. He will never get tired of hearing your prayer request.
I encourage you to join me in making prayer an area of intense focus this Lenten season to jump start living a joyful life.
Resources: Draw The Circle: The 40 Day Prayer Challenge by Mark Batterson – The perfect prayer guide for Lent or any 40 day period. Inspiring stories about answers to prayer. Also includes scripture and prayer prompts for your journey.
The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan Prayers and Devotions by Arthur G. Bennett
Bio: Michele Kearns is the founder and HUG© (Hope Unites Globally) Award-Winner of JoyReturns. She shares her widowhood adventures hoping to inspire widows to move through grief and rebuild their lives. A graduate of Kent State University with a Bachelor’s degree in communications, she’s currently using those skills as a virtual logistics contact center representative for a Fortune 100 company. She’s also managed call center teams, co-facilitated a grief support group, and helped small businesses with various writing assignments. Michele is a bookworm, and a lover of history, music, chocolate, red roses, and golden retrievers. She is also the amateur photographer behind the blog OgleOhio.com