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“Thank God For The Man Who Put The White Lines On the Highway”

My Tribute to Cleveland rock n roller Michael Stanley

Cleveland, OH Skyline

My weekend was spent out of town talking and dining out, so no news or TV.

It was on the way home when I heard a radio announcer say “celebrating the life and music of Michael Stanley.”

What?! He died?! NO!

The Michael Stanley Band was a local band that had massive regional success and some national success. Their video He Can’t Love You was one of the first videos played on MTV. He had us women swooning over his sexy good looks and voice. Just hearing the first few notes of Lover, is enough to make me weak at the knees. It is so sultry, smoky and sexy. The only other song that makes me feel the same way is If You Know What I Mean by Neil Diamond.

Michael became a DJ for local station WNCX several years after the band’s breakup and was still doing the job he loved until shortly before his passing. His support for Cleveland and all of Northeast Ohio is legendary. My Town is a song about his love for Cleveland.

Below is a link to where Michael performs Lover – well he sings all but one line as right on time and right on key, the audience takes over.

They always did. Not sure how “Thank God for the man who put the white lines on the highway.” became the line audiences sang. I guess it is because if you live in Northeast Ohio (or any where that gets snow) you are thankful for the man who puts down those white lines helping you know the location of the edge of the road.

The road in front of my house

I hope you will take time and explore Michael Stanley Band, Michael Stanley and the Resonators and Ghost Poets on YouTube. For starters I recommend Let’s Get The Show On The Road and Strike Up the Band both from the iconic Stage Pass album.

While the Michael Stanley Band may never have experienced break out success nationwide at last count my blog posts reach 166 countries. It is the least I can do to say thank you to a man who gave us decades of exceptional music.

Thank you for your part in Cleveland being known as the Rock n Roll Capitol of the world.

Thank you for immortalizing the men who put the white lines on the highway in song.

Thank you for all the love and joy you brought to your family, friends, and fans.

Rest in Paradise Michael.

Here is a link to a local news story that covers Michael’s life.

Hubby was a fan too. Enjoy the concert Joe.

video posted by tgdre

Bio: Michele Kearns is the founder and HUG© (Hope Unites Globally) Award-Winner of JoyReturns. She shares her widowhood adventures hoping to inspire widows to move through grief and rebuild their lives. A graduate of Kent State University with a Bachelor’s degree in communications, she’s currently a virtual logistics contact center representative. She’s also managed call center teams, co-facilitated a grief support group, and helped small businesses with various writing assignments. Michele is a bookworm, and a lover of music, chocolate, red roses, and golden retrievers. She is also the amateur photographer behind the blog OgleOhio.com.

Books For Widows and Other Grieving People

Here are some book recommendations to help you through your grief, whether you are a widow or grieving the loss of a friend or family member.

These are books I have read. While I highly recommend all of these, please wait about 4 weeks after your spouse or other loved one’s passing before starting to read any or all. This was the advice given to me by Joe’s aunt.

My well used copy. Cover has changed since I bought it.

Which ever book you choose, may you feel God’s comfort as you work through grief.

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Bio: Michele Kearns is the founder and HUG© (Hope Unites Globally) Award-Winner of JoyReturns. She shares her widowhood adventures hoping to inspire widows to move through grief and rebuild their lives. A graduate of Kent State University with a Bachelor’s degree in communications, she’s currently a virtual logistics contact center representative. She’s also managed call center teams, co-facilitated a grief support group, and helped small businesses with various writing assignments. Michele is a bookworm, and a lover of music, chocolate, red roses, and golden retrievers. She is also the amateur photographer behind the blog OgleOhio.com.

Preparing For SHTF (Snow Hitting The Fan)

Ohio, like most of the country, is in the grip of snow and bitter cold temps. We are to get at least 5 – 9 inches within 36 hours. The snow from previous storms has not melted yet, so there is a base of about 3 inches.

It is Monday night at 6:58 p.m. when I put the finishing touches on this post. In the past 2 hours the roads were blanketed in at least an inch of snow. The plows have not been down yet so that means there is not 2 inches on the streets or they are having too much trouble keeping the main roads clear to plow the side streets.

Monday February 15, 7:18 a.m.

This seems like a good time to share two article links about preparedness that landed in my inbox. They contain excellent information for everyone and not just widows.

Here are links to the two emails I recently received:

  • How to Prepare for Covid-19 Lockdown – The point of this article is to teach you how to prepare in case there is another lockdown this year. There is enough uncertainty about the jab and what the future holds for this year that preparing for another lockdown makes sense to me.
  • 60 Best Bug Out Bag Foods – It makes sense to have these foods in your pantry for a lockdown or a snowstorm as well as a bug out bag. What is a bug out bag? It is a an already packed bag you keep near a door that you grab upon suddenly needing to leave your house. When the zombies are walking down your street, you will not have time to pack. It contains items to help you survive three days if you have to evacuate.

What better source to learn about preparedness than the prepper community. Most people think of preppers as people running around preparing for surviving a nuclear war, the zombie apocalypse, or some other end of the world catastrophe. While it is a good idea to stock up on silver bullets to take out the zombies, most likely an unexpected event is going to be on a smaller scale like unemployment, power outage, or storm sewer back up.

I am not a hardcore prepper with a bug out bag filled to the brim with all the tactical stuff but have been paying more attention to some preppers on YouTube and to the emails I get in my inbox.

Do I have a bug out bag, no. I have tote bags – both thermal and non-thermal. Plus I have a duffel bag and Joe’s suitcase with wheels. These will be fine if I can leave by car but I am up a creek should I need to leave on foot.

Lack of Faith

Now before I get a lot of flack for not having faith in God to cover all my needs, please read the story in the Old Testament about Joseph (Genesis chapter 37 – 50) and the 7 years of plenty and 7 years of famine. Also in the New Testament read about the brides waiting for the bridegroom (Matthew 25:1-13) with their oil lamps. The bridegroom came when 5 of the brides went to the store to get more oil – ooppss!

No More Couch Potato

Part of physical prepping is not just stocking up extra foods, toiletries, and emergency medical supplies, it is also prepping your body. You and your family have to be in good enough shape to out run the zombies as they come into your neighborhood.

This is the year we must get in better shape. Notice I said better shape. We do not have to be a lean, mean fighting machine by the end of the year. We just need to be better than what we are now. So figure out an exercise plan that works for you and your doctor and get moving. Get your kids or grandkids off the couch too. Life as a couch potato must end this year.

I’m going to start with a simple Pilates stretching routine. Walking will be added once the weather warms up.

Avoid Grief

Whether you are widowed or not, you need to prepare your house and your family for lockdowns, natural disasters or worse. Not being prepared will result in a lot of grief. All it takes to avoid this grief is to prepare little by little according to your budget.

So once this storm is over I will drive to the grocery store and stock up on peanut M&M’s, as they are one of the 60 best bug out bag foods. Even in a SHTF event, you need a treat once in awhile.

Definitions:

  • SHTF – $hit Hits The Fan or Snow Hits The Fan
  • FMHTOU – Fecal Matter Hits The Oscillating Unit (a polite way of saying $HTF). Wish I could think where I first heard this saying.

Bio: Michele Kearns is the founder and HUG© (Hope Unites Globally) Award-Winner of JoyReturns. She shares her widowhood adventures hoping to inspire widows to move through grief and rebuild their lives. A graduate of Kent State University with a Bachelor’s degree in communications, she’s currently a virtual logistics contact center representative. She’s also managed call center teams, co-facilitated a grief support group, and helped small businesses with various writing assignments. Michele is a bookworm, and a lover of music, chocolate, red roses, and golden retrievers. She is also the amateur photographer behind the blog OgleOhio.com.

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