{Day 3} Spiritual Prepping: Psalm Sunday: Out of Your Control

Welcome to Psalm Sunday.

Truthfully this verse was not on my list of verses for this series, however it was not a verse I paid much attention to until after Joe’s passing. So while researching verses, it popped in to my head and I decided to include it. It is not a verse our happy, happy, joy, joy churches preach.

You need to understand now before you lose a husband that his passing is out of your control.

If you’ve already lost a husband, may this verse help erase any and all “if only I had said this.” or “If only I had done that.” and any other “If Only’s” haunting you.

Your eyes saw my unformed body;

    all the days ordained for me were written in your book

    before one of them came to be.

Psalm 139:16

This verse brought comfort to those of us going through GriefShare whether is was a few weeks, months or years since the passing of a loved one.

What is not out of our control is the living a quality life for the time God has ordained for us. Focus on how you live your life and not the length of it.

Bio: Michele Kearns is the founder and HUG© (Hope Unites Globally) Award-Winner of JoyReturns. She shares her widowhood adventures hoping to inspire widows to move through grief and rebuild their lives. A graduate of Kent State University with a Bachelor’s degree in communications, she’s currently using those skills as a virtual contact center representative for a Fortune 100 company. She’s also managed call center teams, co-facilitated a grief support group, and helped small businesses with various writing assignments. Michele loves Jesus, books, history, music, chocolate, red roses, and golden retrievers. She is also the amateur photographer behind the blog OgleOhio.com.