Joe’s Not In Dried Flowers
I took roses from Joe’s casket arrangement and hung them upside down in the garage for 3 weeks. They dried beautifully.
Then I put the dried flowers in a heart-shaped vase done in the “Old Country Roses” pattern. The arrangement looked beautiful and keeping those flowers brought me joy – at that time.
Fast Forward To Today
The arrangement is normally on top of the china cabinet away from this klutz. Today I took down the arrangement while Christmas decorating since it does not fit with what will be up there. Well, the red and yellow roses looked old, tired and dingy. They were also very brittle so after 3 ½ years, into the trash they went.
Putting them in the trash did not bother me because I was doing the right thing. I am taking another step forward in life. Joe lives in a little corner of my heart, not in dried flowers.
The vase is washed and put away. Maybe there will come a time when the heart-shaped vase is filled with first flowers from a new beau – which will bring joy of a different kind.